Well the second question is easy enough, if theres two wireless computers, and when you use one the other slows down(or otherwise doesn't work correctly), WISH can be used to adjust that. If its one wireless and one wired, its better to use gamefuel. The reason alot of people disable it is if your not using it, then by default, any wireless HTTP(Website) traffic gets priority. So if your on the laptop playing WoW, and your girlfriend starts watching Youtube, it slows down your WoW more then usual. However if left enable, you can priortize your traffic. We will go over that if needed, but first I have to look back (like you did) and see how your network is set up to see if its even needed.
As for your second question, about Unicasting vs Multicasting. I thought I knew the answer right off the top of my head, but it looks like it may be a bit more complicated then I thought. So I will have to do some more research and see exactly what the Pro/Cons are when in reference to WoW. Think of Unicasting as a IM while Multicasting is a chat room. Unicasting assumes the reciever of the information sent is correct by default based on the medium. With multicasting though, it must announce who it is and where the information is going on each broadcast. A modem is a unicast connection. The ISP and Modem are constantly checking to make sure that connection is stable, and when it isn't you get those T3 errors we were talking about before. Once that connection is established though, the modem doesn't have to broadcast who you are and give your username and password and stuff, the ISP just knows your allowed on. The question is, are those settings for the WAN or the LAN? Are they talking about the connection type of your internet or the network transmission type of the WoW server? If the latter, I will have to research exactly how WoW network connection work. Do you know of any support site for this? Maybe something with some real technical stuff on it? I don't know the WoW site as well as you probably do. Also, It would be helpful is there was a way to check the error logs of the game. Theres probably somewhere in the game files that will tell why she is having problems connecting.
Oh and speaking of which, if you have reset your router to default, you may have to go back in there and set up all the rules and settings we were working on before.