I am using a motorola sb5101 modem, and my router is hareware version B1 with F/W ver 2.00 NA, I will try the suggestions below tomorrow. When I called D Link support I told them what HW and FW I was using and they told me to go to their site and download new FW, but I could not find anything newer than 2.00.
The really weird thing is last night, for some reason the blue ray worked, I could see my movies on my computer, lasted for about 30 seconds and then lost connectivity.
Thanks for getting back to me so quick, that is awesome. Will try suggestions tomorrow and re post results.