After much research, here is the deal. The Sony TV I have purchased (in the EX 64 series) does not support the 5 GHz band, even though the TV's selling point is that it has BUILT-IN WI-FI, and the manual mentions the need for a 5GHz capable router.
The Wi-Fi certificate for this product and many other Sony's in that price range (1000$) clearly shows that it has only been certified in the 2.4 GHz band.
Once I purchased the $90 Sony USB wi-fi dongle, all networks are visible, including the 5 GHz one.
Set it up, and the HD streaming is spectacular. Thanks SONY for misleading me.
Awesome HDTV, etc, but why the smoke and mirrors?
Thanks for all the help Furrynuts, and again, Happy New Year.
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