thanks for the reply!
router firmware version is 1.12, which appears to be the newest version with the exception of the beta (i'll wait thanks).
last i tried using a VPN, i used OpenVPN on my desktop through a DSL service up was 6mb, down was around 600k. since then i have switched to cable and not had the chance to try this again - must admit i went on the assumption that openVPN was encrypting my connection at my desktop so the router couldn't tell what was going on.
now my cable service is 10mb down/ 1mb up. service is cogeco in ontario canada, and is a dynamic IP. well sort of, its a 3rd party provider called nexicom that uses cogeco's network. the modem is a thomson DCM476, i believe i'm on DOCSIS 3.
now i'm kind of curious to try this again...seen a firmware update and a service change since i last tried this. but still, any suggestions would be great. thanks.