Wand, thank you. My bad - i didn't think to right-click the systray icon - there is indeed an Advanced Options selection from the right-click there, and it *does* have the Auto-Update notification feature there.
Sorry, don't know why it never occurred to me to check the tray icon.
Oh, and BTW, if you have it set as an exclusion with WF, then it won't show the connection either.