Thanks for your response.
I think, if I had a lot of outgoing data though, my ISP account would show that, and my monthly outbound data is around 4gigs, about what I'd expect for the usage my family and I have.
I thought I had my systems pretty secure with permissions defined only for users on the network here and guest/admin accounts disabled.
But if you're right, then theoretically the connect attempts should decrease as people find they can't connect.
I haven't seen any strange data on any of the systems, or on the server. Though, if my years of IT exposure are flaky then maybe I missed something with my security and they were actually downloading from my server, which is not particularly interesting stuff.