Firstly, I should mention I have a 4100, not a 4500. However, that forum is more dead than Michael Jackson's career, and the question relates to something not specific to the hardware, so I'm hoping the setup is similar on the 4500 and can be asked here.
On our old router (a Linksys), I would sometimes set it up to open all ports (1-65535) to a certain IP address. Yes, I understand that essentially removes firewall protection, but it was useful for testing whether or not a program I was having issues with needed some ports opened up, especially if I couldn't find an answer for what ports it needed online.
On this one, in an attempt to do the same thing, I gave the settings the name "Any", didn't specify an application to go along with it (the games I have aren't on the list anyway), picked my computer, and set it to 1-65535. However, Trillian still disconnects from AIM with some regularity, and my roommate has had minor hiccups since I installed the router as well. To try and fix her problem, I did the same setup for her IP. When I save it, I get a message that says the ports I've set to be forwarded conflict with the ones set for myself. Because I have all ports forwarded on mine, that means I get the message regardless of what I try to forward for her. Obviously I could remove the rule for mine and just open the ports each of us needs, but this will presumably remain a problem should we ever require that the same ports be available to us.
My questions are twofold:
As regards the conflicting forwarded ports, is this actually an issue, or is the router in fact opening all ports to all computers on the network, despite the appearance to the contrary? If this is an issue, what can we do to resolve it so we can have the same ports forwarded to each of us?
As regards the problems with certain programs- if my method of forwarding all ports works with this router, why are our non-gaming applications running into problems? She occasionally can't get Hulu to load videos, and like I said, I keep losing connection to AIM. I turned off Gamefuel, although that seems like it shouldn't cause a hassle unless I'm playing something. I'm not really sure where the problem is.