This topic is fairly old, but thought before I went to the time and trouble of actually creating a suitable library, I'd first create a thread that would bring these questions up to date ... TIA!

I thought the function of an iTunes sever might be a good idea -- possibly (1) eliminating the need of a library on all home computers and wifi-enabled iPods, (2) common playlists, (3) faster startups by loading a library db instead of checking a 60,000 track library, (4) ... etc ...
I created the iTunes server on my DNS-323 (F/W 1.08), and whereas I thought the functionality might include broadcasting its presence to local iTunes installations, iTunes instead does nothing. That is, the DNS323 manual does simply state:
"After enabling the iTunes server on the DNS-323, launch iTunes. When iTunes detects the DNS-323, select it and you will be prompted to enter the iTunes server password if required"... so I came here to find what others are doing, and instead I find a lot of problems (possibly cured with recent iTunes versions), but also including many queries questioning the functionality of D-Link's implementation -- afterall, iTunes does provide similar functionailty via sharing the library, does it not(?) All posts in this forum are very old, and most seem to have given up and instead chose to simply point iTunes at the mapped drive for the NAS, and left it at that ...
Regarding the latter, some have indicated this non-server method creates an extremely long startup time for iTunes -- is this true?
Lastly, I'm assuming it may be an issue with the D-Link implementation, else I may simply post a similar query at the Apple forum. In any case, feel free to point me at any pertinent forum thread, and thanks for bringing you experience with iTunes and/or iTunes Server to this thread and updating noobie questions ...
