Hi,
It's a strange world in which I find myself inclined to defend the DLINK 320, but I have 2 other brand NAS's in roughly the same price point, that are in fact slightly slower than the 320. These would be US prices. Anyway, most of us considered and bought the 320 because of it's relatively low price and advertized features. The relatively low price we got, but the features were and are much more iffy. In my experience, "Gigabit" is a much touted but deceptive and unrealistic term, because the underlying hardware and many other devices cannot support true "Gigabit" speeds. NAS speeds in particular seems to be directly related to the onboard CPU speed more than any other single factor. Unfortunately, you do not get any significant increase in CPU / transfer speeds without spending at least 2 times more for a higher performance NAS and even then, don't expect anywhere near the theoretical maximum transfer speeds.
I understand the frustration of buying something with high expectations and then becoming increasingly frustrated by the performance which is dramatically less than what you were enticed to believe by slick and deceptive marketing. Unfortunately, these seem to be the "industry standards" as they say.
I would suggest you put the device up for auction, but be prepared to pay quite a bit more for what you want. Good luck