Seems that my router does not play nice with UPNP. I reset my router (not turn off turn on sort but factory reset) and it seemed to fix the issue for now.Seems that the UPNP was overloading the router tables and it would shut down, a reset cleared those tables so we will see. go ahead and close if you want.BTW anything you want me to put in to post at the bottom or something that way you can just search for like..
admin close or something.