Well first thing I would do is set up Outlook or some kind of email client on a computer on that network with the same settings, and send a email from romie@wi.rr.com to romasurus@wi.rr.com. If that goes through, then try again from the router. Its possible they require you to "pop" or check for incoming mail first before sending outbound email. Unlikly..but possible. If the email from outlook doesn't go through, then It could be a issue with emai being blocked before it even reaches your spam filter. Or something else easy to fix