Any chance you can take this router to a different location with different devices, say a friend for familys place just to see if the problem follows and test with different devices.
Can you set a manual channel 36 and see the radio at all?
I would not expect to see any failures using Apple products with this router. I have had my 826L for several months now. I'd have to go back and look to see when i got it exactly however both radios have been working well since I got it accept for the one issue on 5Ghz when I upgraded to v1.03 which i'm still wondering about. I have loaded v1.04 on it again and everything has been ok so far. D-Link is still sending me another 826L as they mentioned that there could be an HW issue when v1.03 was applied. They could not reproduce it there on there HW. I currently have a bridged DIR-865L and a DAP-1533 connected to the 5Ghz radio for 2 xboxes for gaming. Been working this radio pretty good.
I still feel this is an isolated issue possibly and the reason to see if you can take this unit to a different local, however if the 5Ghz is actually broke and not functional, then I wonder if your Apple devices could also be contributing to it's demise. I use a Mac Book Pro 2007 era on mine however I don't stream much thru it. I do that wired with a LAN file server. I just remembered that my roommate downstairs does streaming on his xbox over the 5ghz radio on one of the wireless adapters so it does get used for some video streaming.

One other test you could try, you'll need to switch to 2.4Ghz, lower the power output of the radio from High to say Medium or try Low. Disable HT 20/40Mhz Co-existance option as well. Then attempt to stream with the Apple devices on 2.4Ghz. I'm wondering if there could be any failures here.
This is 2 same model routers that exhibited the same failure on 5Ghz with your devices. I presume there is a possible relation somewhere to the failure.
I have enjoyed my 826L for what it does and would recommended it being that this could be an isolated issue I think here. If your looking to remain with 5Ghz, you might try the 857, 827, 835, 868L, 855L or 836L. I do have the 857, 827 and 868L and all are very nice.
I'm going to pass this along to D-Link and see if we can get some review on this and some additional help.