Problem with DIR-826L solved.
Got a call late in the AM today from the D-Link tech that the problem was escalated to... this fellow knew his stuff.
Yesterday I did some digging between the two set-ups (my existing 645 and the new 826) and found a few differences, mostly that the new unit was set to Dynamic IP instead of static etc. Note that when I asked the initial tech which setting it needed to be in the new 826L (before I checked the 645 set-up) he said Dynamic, and that that was not the problem as I could view the web, receive emails and just not send (or hook up to my 1320).
A call from our ISP this morning confirmed that we are static IP as well, so just as I was about to go in change it all myself the tech called. We went through a few other items first and still no ability send emails. We re-set and changed the IP to static and input my numbers, interestingly now I could send and receive emails but not view the web (both in Chrome and IE).
We reset and went through the exercise again. This time, I could receive and send emails AND view the web, ONLY now I could NOT access the D-Link set-up in the 826L?? I should point out that we only knew this as this tech was thorough, so each time we changed the parameters in the 826L he had me first check to see if I got internet on multiple (non cached) pages, next to see if I could both send and receive emails, and thirdly he had me close the D-Link set-up window and re-open to see if I could access it.
We reset the 826L and went through the changes once again. We then checked to make sure that all aspects of email and web were working, and this time we WERE able to access the set-up in the 826L so all is well! Took about an hour, maybe an hour and half for all this to transpire.
Thanks again. I hope this helps others who have the same problem in the future. The key was definitely to confirm my exact specs from the Internet Service Provider and compare them "box by box" to what was in the 826L, but then also to have the right tech who knew enough to check, double check and triple check until we found success. Without that I would have simply input the numbers and they still would not have worked (I might have done it twice)... he had some tricks up his sleeve to overcome the two-three unexplainable failures before the final reset and re-do that worked.