So sorry for the delay guys, have been caught up with things...

I tried what acellier said today, and it is finally giving me some signs that the camera is alive, however seems that it is not very good a catching someone that walks slowly in front of the camera, I literally had to sit in front of the camera for a couple of minutes to see me there on an email motion detection imageI will need to play with the settings, but at least it is getting me now emails with pictures which it wasn't doing before. I do have to say that the night vision is excellent not bad for such a budget camera. Thanks a million acellier.. great help with " STARTTLS : Yes"
I was starting to get afraid that this camera was only to be used by experts on networking and such. Thank yo JavalAwyer and ReverendTed for your feedback. You guys rock!!!