hi,
i had the same problem and searched over a week what was wrong.
i did a clean windows 10 install and the problem already cameup during the installation.
so i formatted the disk and installed windows 7......my lan and netgear router works perfectly. (i had to copy 5tb data to a new nas)
then i reinstalled windows 10 and the connection problem started again
the problem ist not netgear it is windows 10, which many people complain about
google "windows 10 lan problems"
the windows 10 lan drivers are faulty, get the newest one, in my case it was broadcom