Spent the better part of 2 days troubleshooting this at the laptop level before thinking it might be with the DIR-882. The laptop is an Acer A515-54-BQ30 (itself running firmware 1.12) with an Intel AC-9560 WiFi chipset running Windows 10 Home version 1909 (tried several version of Windows too). Both firmware 1.11 and 1.2 on the DIR-882 exhibit the issue, which is the laptop system event log get absolutely spammed by adapter resets and disconnects when connected to 5GHz, eventually disabling itself... but when on 2.4 no issues at all. Likewise, no issues on 2.4 or 5GHz when connected to a DIR-860L running a DD-WRT version from late 2018. Needless to say, the network stability when connected to the 882 via 5GHz is terrible to the point of being unusable.
I'm curious if anyone else has noticed this issue between the AC 9560 chipset and the DIR-882 when on 5GHz? I tried switching a few settings both at the adapter level and DIR-882 level (painfully one at a time to test each change). I tried so many versions of the chipset drivers I lost count. I tried Windows 10 Home version 1703, 1809 (revision 2) and 1909. Same results. I was using Smart Connect but disabled that so I could at least get the laptop stable on 2.4, which is seems to be. For now I intend to keep the laptop and just use 2.4 GHz until new drivers get released for the chipset or the DIR-882 gets new firmware or I throw in the towel and load DD-WRT.
Any ideas on something I have control over being the culprit (like a default setting buried somewhere)? I'm out of ideas.
edit: some typos