How is everyone else going with this issue?
An update from me... so its now nearly 2 weeks later. I've had pretty much a *perfect* run with these drivers.
There was one session when i had 2 short periods of packet loss, but nothing else, just lots of TF2.

Even with my connection being saturated with files being copied off my machine at the same time

Other benefits is a more thorough client app, many more options and shows more information. As well as it fixes an issue I sometimes had with the Dlink drivers - sometimes on a fresh boot I'd have to go in and "activate" my connection in the Dlink connection manager (I think it was when the router auto-switched the channel to something diff to when my comp was last on). Also connects a lot faster.
So, please try these only if you have good computer knowledge and its all at your own risk..
http://www.station-drivers.com/page/atheros.htm
For the d-link wireless-N NICs just get the AR5xxxx series.
Cheers