Do we know for a fact that the DNS relay is _not_ caching the responses from the DNS servers it's configured with? If it isn't, then this particular glitch doesn't make any more sense than when it was first picked up.
Nothing unusual with my network configs. No internal DNS servers, no caching proxies, none of that at all - there are a total of 5 clients connected. 2 over the wire, 5 others periodically over WLAN. All of them exhibit the exact same performance. Iphone 3g, iphone 4, both behaving identically - after a couple of days, performance just starts to slide downhill. I even went through and disconnected everything and brought 1 client at a time online in it during the poor performance period - wanted to make sure we weren't getting any extraneous traffic. None was found. And the moment it was reset, presto, all better again.
If I'm truly the sole person experiencing the issue, and I doubt that seriously, then as I said - I have a viable workaround, happy with this router's performance and its range in particular. I'm well outside of the warranty on it I'm sure, so in the event that the router DOES die, I'll simply replace it. It's certainly outlasted its predecessors (a couple of linksys, a couple of dlinks) by a hefty margin, so can't really complain

If you've got any other suggestions I'll certainly listen to them. If TPTB want to see for themselves that I've got no weird configuration details going on they're welcome to a copy of the config off the router. It's pretty straight up though. DHCP is turned on, securespot is turned off, wireless is in mixed mode, I actually have the SSID broadcasting, locked to WPA2 running AES only. Timezone is set but auto-DST is disabled, time server is set (and confirmed working), and outside of static IP's for the desktops I'm pretty sure everything else was left alone. Well, of course, DNS relaying is now off, but other than that there's nothing strange about the configs on this router or this network. No secondary switches, access points, relays, etc. No domain controller, no internal DNS server, just an average plain-Jane network setup.
And the only time the router's been reset since disabling the dns relay was yesterday when my cats decided to parkour up the side of the desk and managed to catch the power switch on the power strip feeding the router and cable modem. Furry little cretins.
