I'm a novice when it comes to networking, just to warn you.

I have a DGL-4500 router connected to a Zhone DSL modem. We have 2 iPhones, and our cordless phones are on 8.x GHz frequency. There are nearby radios from neighbor's wireless. We live in a house not apartment.
I'm not quite sure where the wireless is being dropped. I'm running Windows 7 and the wireless icon will show the 5 bars but with a yellow question mark or triangle on top of it.
I've unplugged the modem and replugged it to the power source but that doesn't seem to help. I usually have to unplug and replug the router.
The only wireless N devices we have are the two new XBOX 360's and my wife's laptop. I have about 18 connected devices, all wireless. They are not all connected at the same time, we average about 8 connected at any given time.
I don't know where to start troubleshooting because I don't know if it's a modem or router issue. I think the modem is bridged....it configured itself automatically when I plugged in the router. I literally had to do nothing but plug the modem to the router. Also, I can't get a UI page for the modem but can for the router.
I was reading other posts and was thinking that I should try running in just "G" mode to test. Should I do that?
Any suggestions?
Thanks!
ETA:
I'm running 2.4 GHz, mixed mode wireless on all the time.
Transmission Rate: Best
Channel Width: auto 20/40 MHz
WPA: Personal
WPA Mode: Auto
Cypher type: TKIP and AES
Group Key Update Interval: 3600 seconds
DHCP Server: Enabled
DHCP Lease time: 1440 minutes