I have the same problem, and its not just OS X. I have both Vista and OS X, and I am trying to copy 80 gigs of mp3s to the DNS-323 from Vista, and it keeps timing out. It seems like it goes into sleep mode. To get around this, I am using FTP but its taking FOREVER. Its connected to a gigabit switch. I am running the 1.05 fw.
I've done some research, and it seems like SMB might be the problem. I was thinking of trying NFS, but I can't seem to find a free solution for Vista.