I'm having a very similar issue. Using the same router on my home network, and dialing into a VPN. VPN drops every 3 minutes when on the wireless - I haven't tried when wired though. I'm on Vista-32.
I originally had trouble staying connected on the wireless, but upgraded the software for my Intel wireless adapter on my Lenovo laptop (X301), and wireless operates well. Just can't keep the VPN going. I shortened the redial to 1 second, but obviously doesn't resolve the issue.
I use DECT 6.0 phones in the house.