I don't want to sound rude, but you may want to get someone to come in and help you as you seem a little over your head trying to set this up. It really isn't that hard if you followed the steps provided here.
I know you said in another thread that you have AOL, that may be part of the problem too. Without being there to see exactly waht you have for your Internet setup its hard to troubleshoot from long distance. Did they give you a cable modem or is it a modem/router setup? Or is it a DSL setup? Or did they give you some kind of spefic box that they only use to make your inital Internet connection? Like I said with knowing your exact layout of things it hard to go beyond basic information to get you going.