the LAN IP address of the Router can be anything, doesn't exactly have to be a 192.168 address, can start with a 1 and up to 192. I've seen single digits, like on mine, some people use 10. Some people use 172. The Lan IP addresses on a home network are not bound to certain addresses like the WAN side. It's just what is recommended and used for general home use.
If you looking to configure the date and time, why not set a manual time server like: time.nist.gov.
Basically, you need to start over. Turn off all devices. Make sure the router and modem are connecting well. Test with one wired PC. Leave off all the others.
Setup static IP address on the router for the one PC. Don't get static IPs on the devices.
Turn off all QoS.
Use ISP DNS to test first.
Do some speed tests with and with out the router.
Once you establish that you get good connection and speeds with one PC, turn the next device.
Graduate this until you can get all going and working well.
Save off the configuration to file. Build your self a working configuration file.
Then go back and start tweeking and playing with openDNS and other settings.