@kargo27: its been a persistent bug for the DGL-4500, i bought mine almost 2 years ago, and ever since the 1.2XNA updates it has been struggling with its wifi. I came to the conclusion that having more than 3 Clients Wirelessly connected to it confuses it, and it just give up the fight. I had tried persistently to fix the wireless issues with it, but gave up and wired the house with CAT6 for a seamless Gigabit network. later on i decided to search for ways to add another router within the same subnet, and found it, and now from a different router, i have Wireless again, and in same subnet too.
@FurryNutz i originally was trying it that way, but it kept getting denied due to inappropriate encryption. I don't know what its encryption is, but it clearly is not SSL or TLS/STARTTLS.
@Hard Harry: get some rest bro, from what i understand Gmail requires Authentication of SSL and above, am unsure of other providers, but i feel that SSL should be added in the next FW update for this router, heck it should have been in there from the get go, but i suppose that would be too hard.
thank you everyone for the help, its not quite what i wanted, but it will do.
got one last question for you guys before i consider this case closed, does Dlink make Cable modems? like just the modem, not converged "poop" a stand alone modem for Cable, and if so is it DOCSIS 3.0? with a Gigabit WAN port?