Ok, I have PT enabled again, played 3 games last night.
Game 1: killed confirmed on Black box: I went negative 7/11, hit detection was okay, I think I did bad because its a new map and the other team was real campy, The game reached its time limit before any team reached 65 since people were camping so bad. Final score 38 to 43 (loss).
Verdict: to be expected with a new map and going against a team who likes to camp, I can accept this but then again 3 people left the game before it ended, poor sports or too much lag? I don't know.
Game 2: Domination on Black box: Hit detection was really good, went 12/7 and won. No lag noticed in this match. Yay!
Game 3: Team death match: I pull host, hit detection is really good again maybe even great. I even got a triple kill with a bouncing betty! lol. Things going good, close game but my team is winning, the game gets a little glitchy, then I get kicked and I am sitting back in the lobby all by myself!!!

I have encountered at least 3 disconnects this week and this would very rarely happen before! Once it happened when playing with my son, I got kicked but he was still playing the same match when I went in the other room to see if he did too. I am pretty sure I was host that time too, not sure why everyone did not get disconnected unless XBL sees both of us as host.
Anyway, I ran line quality check and my upload consistency was 24%! As mentioned in the auto uplink thread I changed auto uplink to manual (2048) and now I get ~90% upload consistency.
I have a minimum of 2 meg upload and my modem levels are in spec with no packet loss, why is this game needing so much bandwidth to host a game???
I have not played any more matches since doing this, just wanted to let everyone know where I was at.