Ok, I loaded the dd-wrt firmware, which has a ton of cool features and options, but still have the same problem.
I see the port forward stuff, but I think the problem is I need it to be bi-directional.
My web request comes in on port 8081 and must be forwarded to port 80 on the IP address of he DNS-321, when the DNS-321 sends data back based on the request it sends it on port 80 and I don't think anything is converting it back to the original port 8081.
Since I request a webpage on port 8081 I must have the results returned on the same port.
I think the port-forwarding features are uni-directional for inbound data only.
Wes