If you are in the 5Ghz N only mode the 20 wide band is always displayed, even if it is not your current setting.
If you want to use 20/40, select it and hit save. Your router will be in 20/40 mode, even though it displays only 20 after the save.
For me the easiest way to check if 40 wide is working is to check my wireless laptop utility or to check windows network speed (pretty sure anything over 150mbps has to be 40 wide mode).