update :
Never bothered to do much with the touchscreen ... tried that now and got the media renderer feature working. Not that it's usefull or anything

make sure you turn your pc's firewall off for the sake of the experiment.
Make sure the upnp service is running
start windows media player
make sure you have a folder shared on the dir685 with some music, everybody readwrite rights, activate dlna etc
now go to the touchscreen, browse to DLNA settings and follow the instructions : at some point you arrive at your media folder, then dir685 asks what renderer to stream to, it will list your pc, select it and presto, WMP will start playing the music.
the point were the dlink engineers tap themselves on the back is the fact that the renderer can triangulate, ie stream to WMP not from its own disk but from another networked mediaserver. Wow guys !
What I want is for a PC/ a BR player to connect to my NAS, with all albummeta data displayed (CD cover, list of songs etc) and play it through the speakers in my living room. Why is it that hard to comprehend ?
I want the 15watts that a NAS consumes, not the 350 my PC does. So why does the entire industry, MS up front, force me to run mediaservers from pc's ?
Oh yeah : I had the device display a holiday pic of mine from the internal harddrive ... as I type this, it now says PIN:0123323. DLink really needs a kick in the groin.