**UPDATE**
Firstly, thanks to everyone for their well wishes, I truly hope this whole thing isn't the norm for Dlink, but I can honestly say that I will not be purchasing any more wireless, or managed products from them. I do have a 5 port gigabit switch i am perfectly happy with. Also note that the forum techs have been great and responsive for the most part and have helped give Van a jump start a couple times for me to the best of their ability.
The most recent status of this whole thing is this. Van said he mailed the check on 8/6/08, then later says 8/9/08, but per the usps track and confirm it was mailed out 8/11/08 so.... take what you will from that. Now some more fun, I asked Van for the track and confirm number since he said it was sent out certified. He could have checked the number earlier instead of asking me today if I had received my check yet since I contacted the BBB again. I ask him to check and to provide the tracking number, he does. According to the tracking number the check was mailed on 8/11/08 and it has been missent. I called my local post office and they said it was lost in Michigan somewhere and they have no other status to provide. I asked about how long these things take to get sorted out if they ever do and they said a couple of weeks... Van, seeing that tracking shows missent tells me that if I don't have the check by Monday, he will cancel it and resend. The end is finally in sight, here's to hoping the post office can find it and get it delivered before I have to rely on Van to cancel it and resend a new one...