Ok, news, I have managed to disable the router firewall and port forward by ...guess how? checking out youtube..yeah I know! anyway, search d-link port forwarding and you get a bunch of stuff. I applied the stuff and needed to know the exact the info of which ports the Wii uses compared to say an Xbox and badabing I am in..now all I need to know is how to set the QoS section and I am good I think...yet to test the actual game consol so lets cross fingers.