What I would recommend is going to a well known (reputable) security forum and request some help so as to make sure your system is clean.
Here are a couple of good ones
Spywareinfo Forums
What the Tech Forums (formerly TomCoyote)
Now without seeing any diagnostic logs from your system using specific software, I can't say for sure that there is an infection on your system or what may be residing there.
But from your router log, it does look like you may have a Bot on your system. It could be from a Storm worm variant or some other parasite that has been going around in recent months. Worse case scenario would be the presence of a RootKit as many spyware parasites tend to download other parasites to protect themselves.
Keeping a system in DMZ without any firewall protection what so ever is bad news, especially with all that is loose on the net these days. But then again, I have no idea what sort of protection you may have configured on your system.
The Main reason I purchased the DGL-4500 was not only for the Extreme-N and GigaBit capabilities, but the most important thing to me was the Dual Active SLI & NAT fire walls. In other words, the SLI firewall saves me from having to purchase a separate security appliance.