I'm having the exact same problem. I've tried a number of things, resetting the device, rebooting my machines and the device, and haven't been making progress. I have 3 machines, an XP, Vista, and Windows 7 machine. I finally got the Vista machine to connect after the reset. But I still can't get the Win7 machine to work. I'm really not sure what combination of things I tried helped the Vista machine, but I think it had something to do with the fact that I was trying to map a drive, using an alternative id/pw combo that only differed in the password from an account on my machine. By that I mean I created an account User1 on the device with the password Pass1. On my machine, I already had a User1 account, but it had a password of Pass2. When I mapped the drive, i told it to use User1/Pass1, but it failed every time. After I did the reset, I also made sure that the two user/pass matched. I don't know which helped.
But now i'm trying to do this on my domain joined laptop. So obviously the accounts can't match unless I call my device "Northamerica" (that's my domain name). I've made sure that there's no overlap of accounts on the laptop and device. and I still can't figure it out. When it asks for my username i use "devicename\username" because if I don't specify the domain, it assumes my default domain. I've verified this format works on the other machine.
what am I doing wrong??? how should this work? mapping a simple drive shouldn't be this difficult.