Heh, thanks for clearing that up, but yes its very true that Shaw is Canadian, I shouldve mentioned that before.
1. Its a Motorola Surfboard, model is SB5102
2. It used to be a hub up there instead of a switch. It was used before we got any wireless devices in the home, then when we got the router I just figured it would be easier to keep running and set up if I kept it in my room, and didnt care to include my parents computer into my own personal lan. Yes we get two IPs from Shaw, they are dynamic as far as I can tell.
3. Calling up Shaw, they told us the signal levels were all good with the old modem, but I didnt trust that, hence why we went out and got it replaced. It was under warranty, so no cost for the modem replacement. I would expect(assume

) that the signals are still good, according to Shaw.
As a bit of an addition now, Ive moved the router upstairs, been testing it, and it all worked fine for a good while. Some periods of slowness occurred, but there was what appeared to be someone trying to access it from an unknown mac address, so I blocked that MAC address and the slow down is gone.
However, when I plugged my webserver back into the router, as I had forgotten to do, the network went down right away again. Wireless disconnected, and all wired connections dropped to tumble-weed speeds. So this leads me to think its my webserver doing something funny... MySQL, Apache and Filezilla, as well as a ventrilo server, so now I get to spend time trying to figure out whats going wrong there.

Thanks for all the help and suggestions, though!
I still dont understand whats so wrong or bad about having the switch before the router, FurryNutz seems to think its the most horrible thing ever. XD