Oh yea, it came alright. LOL. What a headache. But to be fair to the adapter, I think the vast majority of the complexitity stemmed from issues outside it's control.
So heres how it went. She physically hooked everything up and I walked over a few things to test the connection and enable remote support (which worked flawlessly BTW) so I could configure it from over here. That part went fine. I saved configure files, and had her print out the network info on nice little index cards..we even saved the settings on a flash via the routers USB using WCN. Everything was going great. Everyone was online, speeds were good, etc. Then we went to hook up the adapter. My plan was to remote into her PC via teamviewer while she had a local only hardwire to adapter, and a internet connection through wifi to new router. Since I had already created WISH and Gamefuel rules for a certian IP destined for the PS3, I thougjh ....wait..thats it. Long story short, we were having 4 problems:
1. Out of no where the ethernet port on her laptop died.
2. Everytime we would set the default gateway to 192.168.0.1, it would be overwhelmed by the routers gateway and we wouldn't be able to access it, and would have to factory default.
3. And if we left it to DHCP, and set the wireless to connect to the network, it will still set a 192.168.0.1 gateway. Kind of a chicken or a egg problem.
4. Last issue was her friends laptop also started having issues, and I think we might have to rebuild his tcp with netsch.
What I just figured out though was we set DHCP reservations ahead of time. Which means the router is probably getting confused that the Mac address tied to the IP request is not the same mac address requesting it. When the game adapter connects, you don't see the mac of the adapter, you see the mac of the adapter of the laptop in the DHCP list. Thats because the packets are eth framed, not 802.11. Doh! So I will just delete the DHCP reservation for her friends laptop, rebuild the TCP, factory reset adapter, configure everything but the wirelesss, then connect it wireless. Then disable wireless on router, go back in and change to a static ip. Last connect the PS3, then when I see the mac of the PS3 aquire in the router, I will just set a DHCP reservation to that. Hmm..I guess that is still kind of complicated.