This forum is my last hope..i tried to ask to 2 different countries tech support, via mail and phone, posted on various forums but noone seems able to help me

I'll tell you my problem...
i use wireless just with my notebook so i keep it off most of the time..and when it was off i saw those entries in logs:
Access denied to wireless system with MAC address 000D3AFF6801
Access denied to wireless system with MAC address 000D3AFF6802
Access denied to wireless system with MAC address 000D3AFF6803
.....
Access denied to wireless system with MAC address 000D3AFF6809
..what happened?? was wireless really off ? also, i checked under traffic statistics and no wireless data have been transmitted after my last poweroff (2 days before)..
Later i've resetted the router + upgraded to the latest firmware 1.22 (got it before it was deleted from ftp server)..after few minutes i got the same logs showing different mac addresses trying to connect to my router...but wireless radio was OFF ! also, the led for the wireless just glowed a little for less than one second and then nothing more,even if i was seeing in realtime logs... !
I tried various firmwares (latest 1.21 beta too) but i got always the same problem..
Just to be sure i tried searching myself for wireless signals with tools like wirelessmon, and i couldnt find mine (of course, wireless radio was OFF !!!!!)
Seems someone is trying to brute force my ap looking for the right mac address, isnt ?
other things:
+ i use vista x64 and occasionally ubuntu x64 (both clean)
+ i'm not sharing my ap with anyone
+ i see that this "problem" appears when im in mixed mode, when i use 802.11n only, everything is ok
+ of course those macaddresses are different from my macaddresses