I was testing the wired network , not the wireless. I have never set up a wireless router before so please bare with me.
Let me back up a bit, when I first inserted the cd and went through the setup the computer was initially contected to the internet through the modem. During the setup, I followed eveything on screen as it said but during it the router said it could not detect the internet and said to contact my ISP. Well that is pointless as it was/is working without the router. It asked it I wanted to configure anyways and I did. The only way I could get online was to navigate to the web based setup screen. Until that point I couldn't navigate to any other pages, but after the internet worked fine, albiet slower than normal.
My modem is stand alone (Ambit model:u10c018.80) and my ISP is Charter. I removed the router again and my upload/download went back to normal.
I am very sorry if you are beating your head against something at this point but to further pain you...I have no idea what "DNS IP addresses" are let alone how to even change the modes on this thing. Thank you very much for your response and patience in this matter!!!