What Hareware version is your router? Look at sticker under router.
What Firmware version is currently loaded? Found on routers web page under status.
What ISP Service do you have? Cable or DSL?
What ISP Modem do you have? Stand Alone or built in router?
What ISP Modem make and model do you have?
If this modem has a built in router, it's best to bridge the modem. Having 2 routers on the same line can cause connection problems.
Some other tips:
Ensure DNS IP addresses are being filled in under Setup/Internet/Manual? You can find these under Status/Device Info/Wan section.
Turn off ALL QoS (DIR only) GameFuel (DGL only and if ON.) options.
Turn off Advanced DNS Services if you have this option under Setup/Internet/Manual.
Turn on DNS Relay under Setup/Networking.
Setup DHCP reserved IP addresses for all devices on the router.
Ensure devices are set to auto obtain an IP address.
Set Firewall settings to Endpoint Independent for TCP and UDP.
urn off all anti virus and firewall programs on PC while testing.
Turn off all devices accept for one wired PC while testing.
Check cable between Modem and Router, swap out to be sure. Cat6 or 5e recommended.
Hardware version A1.
Latest firmware (1.00 28 May 2011)
Modem and ISP is not the problem, as I tested on 2 different modems: same problem.
My previous router TP-Link TL-WR1043ND worked fine.
DHCP works fine and I have no problem obtaining an IP-address for LAN and WAN.
Already tried turning off QoS.
Tried different cables, not the problem.
Already have DNS Relay on.
I did not yet try this, so I will now
Set Firewall settings to Endpoint Independent for TCP and UDP.
Thanks for all the help!
PS @ Hard Harry: I'm pretty sure the problem is that "OCM memory" **** as someone else with a DIR-655 got the same exact problem with a DIR-655 (see here
http://www.overclock.net/t/1030635/router-keeps-losing-connection)
UPDATE: Even with Firewall to Endpoint Independent for TCP/UDP connection was dropped, this was in the log:
May 28 11:28:44 UDHCPD sending ACK to 192.168.0.101
May 28 11:26:16 UDHCPD sending ACK to 192.168.0.101
May 28 09:59:04 [60855.980000] Disable bridge netfilter
May 28 09:59:01 [60853.480000] module arch cleanup nf_conntrack_ftp: OCM instruction memory free of 0 @00000000
May 28 09:59:01 [60853.320000] module arch cleanup nf_nat_ftp: OCM instruction memory free of 0 @00000000
The drops occurred at 11:26 and 11:28