I hesitate to state that I think I may have stabilized my Wi-Fi connection. Every time I think it is doing pretty good it takes a turn for the worse.

I do believe that I have it about as stable as it is going to get while running the 2.4Ghz band.
The missing piece was to go into advanced/advanced network and make sure Enable Multicast Streams was checked. Did this and restarted the router and it has been pretty stable for the last two days.
If anything changes I will post back but as of right now I think it is about as good as it is going to get.
Thanks again Furry for your willingness to help!
now I patiently await that DGL5500