Back again - sorted with a work round - not the best, but Microsoft SyncTool 2.0 seems to have worked and has on the first pass added 75% of the missing content, it also keeps the important files like Photos and Music in tandum so a happy bunny.
Would still like to know why the DNS is refusing to do the simple things in life re copying complete folder contents is it the meta detail......will have to read the manual I think