My new router arrived today but I am still having the same problem

. My firmware is 1.21 so I can't downgrade to 1.10.
When I've had connection dropping problems in the past, it has always been more of a disconnect then connect thing. This just changes to local only then won't work until I've unplugged and plugged the adaptor back in.
I'm just playing about with any settings that I can find at the moment!
I'm frustrated as I know there is nothing wrong with the router and know there is nothing wrong with the adaptor. They just don't like each other! I feel like there must be a setting I can change though that will make it work. I just don't know where.