Well.... before I upgraded the firmware to 1.3, I couldn't use the Dlink WM because it always loses the connection. It reconnects after about 30 seconds, and then drops it again after 5 minutes. This continues for about 20 minutes, and then it won't even pick up my network. Sounds like the XTREMEness of the adapter is crashing the router

After I upgraded the firmware, I can't even use the Dlink WM because it's GONE. Not in my programs folder, not on my desktop, GONE. Poof. gone. I don't have any wireless adapters, so it's working, (drivers are installed according to device manager, and working properly) and I can't get 300mbps

Basically my questions are
1) Do I need the Dlink WM software to connect at 300mbps?
2) Why was it so finicky? IS there a firmware upgrade in the works?
3) What is the correct way to install this adapter?
Please help! This is frustrating!