Thanks for the continued help.....I end up taking the 885L back to Office Depot because my window to return it was about to close......However, I ordered a new one from Amazon and I'm supposed to get it tomorrow ( Saturday) so I'm gonna be setting this one up from new......do you suggest I don't do any firmware upgrades and just run on the firmware that it arrives in? also I will try your suggestion and not set up share port, DDNS, or DLNA.......I won't even plug in my USB thumb drive at all..........if my Tivo doesn't connect the way it should I will enable DMZ and then see if it works......if I end having to enable DMZ are you suggesting that I try and port forward then after port forwarding disable the DMZ? I will have a month to figure this out because Amazon has a much better return window than office depot......I really love this router other than it not playing nice with my Tivo system so I really hope we can figure it out......I am willing to troubleshoot as much as possible to try and figure out the problem.........you asked what ports Tivo recommends being open? I just copied and paste the entire email that they sent me and as you will see there is a lot of ports involved.... if you need any other info just let me know but for now when you get a chance just let me know how you think I should configure the new router that will arrive tomorrow ....thanks for your help!
MPORTANT: Troubleshooting port issues may require contacting your Internet Service Provider (ISP) and/or the manufacturers of your networking equipment and software.
If your TiVo DVR is having issues connecting to your home network, use one of the following procedures to check if required ports or IP addresses are blocked.
Make sure that ports 80 and 8080 (for outbound traffic) are not being blocked by your router, firewall, or Internet Service Provider (ISP).
Verify that the following IP addresses are not being blocked by your router, firewall or Internet Service Provider (ISP):
208.73.180.0 through 208.73.183.255
204.176.49.0 through 204.176.49.127
206.112.115.0 through 206.112.115.255
If the ports and IP addresses are configured properly on the router and firewall, but your TiVo box is unable to communicate with the TiVo service or another TiVo box, some ports or addresses may be blocked by your Internet Service Provider (ISP). Contact your Internet Service Provider (ISP) for assistance.
Outbound ports that must be open
TiVo set top boxes and TiVo Desktop software must be able to access the TiVo service to enable features, access content, and perform updates. The TiVo service must be reachable over the internet from your home network via the following ports (OUTBOUND):
Access your router from your computer and ensure the outbound ports listed below are open. See the user guide for your router if you need assistance.
TCP port 80 TCP port 443 TCP port 5223
TCP port 7287 TCP port 7288 TCP port 8078
TCP port 8079 TCP port 8081 TCP port 8181
Unrestricted ports within your network
For internal network communication between multiple TiVo boxes, TiVo Desktop software, and other TiVo applications, the following ports should be unrestricted within your home network:
Access your router from your computer and ensure the ports listed below are unrestricted on your network. See the user guide for your router if you need assistance.
TCP port 37 TCP port 80 TCP port 443
TCP port 1413 TCP port 2190 TCP port 4430
TCP port 5222 TCP port 5223 TCP port 5254
TCP port 5354 TCP port 7287-7297 TCP port 8000
TCP ports 8080-8089 TCP port 8101 TCP port 8102
TCP port 8181 TCP port 8200 TCP port 31339
UDP port 37 UDP port 123 UDP port 2190
UDP port 5353
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