Ok one last message for the night..........I set up my DDNS, re enabled UpnP, delete the port forwarding rule, and set up share port, and enabled DLNA.........everything works as long as re enable DMZ..........once a setting changes in the router and the router has to save changes or reboot then it closes Tivo back off until disable DMZ then re enable it again then everything works............so I hope this gives some insight of the problem...not sure if you're a Dlink engineer or what but they really need to know this so they can fix this in an upcoming firmware or other folks that use Tivo systems are going to have this same problem............James