I didn’t get the DIR-882 that long ago and it was meant to replace the now dead DIR-655. When the DIR-655 died I thought one of the new mesh routers would be a good idea.
You mentioned Nest. The thermostat disconnects from the DIR-882 from time to time but other than that it seems ok.
The DIR-1360 has settled a bit but it had lots of odd stuff going on with the WAN setting just disappearing (just once thus far) and still my Pixel 4 and other wireless stuff just don’t seem to like it. When I restart the phone all the other Wi-Fi networks in the area show up right away but the DIR-1360 network takes like a minute to show up and then the phone will show a connection and then it will go away and then connect again, then it seems to stick. With the DIR-882 turned on the phone would keep connecting to it, so I turned it off and then the phone would connect to the Xfinity neighborhood Wi-Fi so I “forgot” it on the phone and then the phone would connect to the Nest Hub. Each time I was forcing it to connect to the new DIR-1360 Wi-Fi network. It would for a bit and then it would connect to like anything else it could.

On top of all this I see that the DIR-1360 is the only one of the new EXO that can have a guest network. Is that right or is the online compare messed up? They do seem to keep removing stuff. The DIR-882 lets you disable connection by setting a schedule on the clients page I think but the DIR-1360 don’t seem to have any way to do this.
Maybe D-Link it not a good match for Nest/Google devices? Though the LG TV also don’t seem like it.

Not sure if I have a bum unit or if a firmware will fix it someday.
My guess is that I’ll have the same issues with any of the new EXO Mesh routers.
So do I :
Just keep the DIR-882 and forget about the mesh stuff for now.
Try a DIR-1960, DIR-2660 or DIR-3060 and see if they behave better.
Try the COVR-3902 with the matured firmware.