OK - Have rebooted PC after router changes, and currently have the other 2 hard-wired devices disconnected for testing, but will check their auto obtain settings when they're back on. Do not have the wireless devices connected either.
No DMZ-sounding options on the modem menu...
Since making the previous changes to the router (above post) the hard-wired PC connection went to 'local only' twice over the following 20 minutes or so. It immediately goes back to 'local and internet' upon page refresh or going to a new web page, or clicking to get mail...
So, working my way down the list of things to try:
Plugged in a different cable (Belkin Fastcat 5e - no cat 6 in the house) between the modem and router and that made no difference - connection went to 'local only' after a few minutes. If all else fails will try to get a cat 6 next town run...
The windows firewall is already off. Next step, disabled NOD32 AV (has been installed for several years), that made no difference - connection went to 'local only' after a few minutes.
No cordless phones within 15 feet of modem and that situation has not changed.
Next step, In advanced wireless,'WLAN Partition'is already 'off'. Turned off 'Short GI'. Do not have the 'extra wireless protection' option.
It has now been an hour without lost connection since turning off 'Short GI'. But, then it went out again, briefly, and then back on...

But maybe this is a clue?
We are currently using 802.11 Mode - Mixed n,g,b and Channel Width set at 20MHz.
Are there any settings that are specific between the PC and router that may be 'timing out' or something?